Ways to Attract Your Boyfriend’s Interest and Make Him Jealous

It’s okay to incite a little jealousy in your partner; it shows concern and possessiveness and prevents one from being taken advantage of. It can be off-putting when your partner avoids intimate moments and date evenings. Although work-related stress may be the root of such conduct, relationships may eventually dissolve if the basis is steadily undermined and little moments of delight are missed. At that point, the prickly sensation of jealousy can help a partner realize how careless he has been unintentionally showing their relationship, and it can act as a wake-up call to get their loved one back.

Find out the simplest, funniest, and most straightforward methods to evoke this conflicting emotion in your partner’s head by reading on.

 

Is Jealousy Effective?

When we talk about waking up the green worm in our partner’s head, we imply doing so by employing a range of charming, cheeky, and slightly wicked techniques. The same love that the man had lavishly bestowed onto his fiancée throughout their courting now appears to be ebbing with time, intimidates women, and even prompts feelings of self-doubt. Therefore, a lot of them go online, read books, and ask dependable girls in their group for advice on how to effectively make their partner jealous and possessive of their relationship.

First, it helps the partner prioritize the relationship over anything else, along with instilling a fear of losing out on their loved one. Secondly, it also manifests in the form of a strengthened degree of possessiveness that both partners have lost for each other due to the mundane regularities of daily life. Thus if cultivated properly and executed diligently, the emotion of jealousy can be a powerful tool for change and a modernized way of reinforcing passion in their relationship.

However, incorporating these tricks is like skating on thin ice — a little bit of negligence can cause your relationship to drown.

Although jealousy stimulates the feelings of care, concern, and fear in your mate’s mind, one cannot deny the fact that it is an offspring of the family of negative emotions like rage, anger, sadness, loneliness, guilt, and shame.

Hence, gaslighting your partner to invoke feelings of envy is like taking the bull by its horns, and if not performed diligently it can lead to arguments, misunderstandings, and even abuse. Just the way too much salt and sugar tends to spoil the taste of the entire dish, overdoing these tricks of jealousy may manifest in the form of aggression in your partner’s mind and make way for questions with regards to one’s fidelity.

In this article, we will explore tried and tested ways of how to make your boyfriend jealous without triggering any feelings of rage, shame, and frustration within their minds. Scroll away to explore the most relevant ways.

19.  Ways to Make Boyfriend Jealous And Reinvigorate Fading Love

  1. Fake It Till You Make It

 

The easiest way to arrest your baes attention is by pretending to be engrossed in your phone and constantly giggling while scrolling through the best deals on Amazon. This constant smiling will set your loved one on fire. He will then try to investigate the truth behind these smirky smiles. In short, create the illusion of talking to someone and allow him to doubt your loyalty so that he finds it irresistible to scroll through your phone when you are away.

2. Reconnect With Your Guy Friends from High School And College

Although, self-explanatory as it seems, guy friends stick out like a sore thumb for boyfriends; they see them as a potential threat aiming to arrest the attention of their lady love while trying to bond over lost memories of school, college, and the workplace. Thus, your guy friend can be a potent arsenal if you are trying to win back the attention of your boyfriend.

 

3. Drool over a Celebrity Crush

Though your celebrity crush may be just an eye candy for you, your male better half views him as an intruder in his relationship with you. The mention of your celebrity crush invokes feelings of insecurity within your man’s mind. He identifies with the individual and emulates his traits into his personality to capture the attention of his lady love. To add on, it is one of the safest ways of making him jealous because it doesn’t backfire or trigger any misunderstandings, as the third person (the celebrity) is least aware of your existence.

 

4. Get Going with Your Girl Gang

Although it may sound a little skeptical, the curiosity guys have towards girl gang gossip is similar to a girl’s earnestness towards ‘boy’s talk’. Hence, once in a while or every second day when you plan a trip with your girlfriends, it is a subtle way of reminding the guy that you have a life outside of him and can be happy even without his presence. This will instill a feeling of being sidelined in your guy’s mind and he will want to become the apple of your eye and not divide his share of the rightful attention with anyone else.

5. Accentuate Your Self Love

The increase in the frequency of your salon visits and your expensive manicure procedures, coupled with flaunting sensual dresses may not be instrumental in making him jealous instantaneously, but it may slowly snowball and raise doubts within your baes mind and he might suspect the presence of something fishy.

 

6. Replying to His Texts And Calls Later Rather Than Sooner

Your guy may start to imagine the worst possibilities once you begin to reply to his texts, his Instagram stories, and his calls in a delayed fashion. However, overdoing this step can deeply upset your partner. It may lead to a feeling of being ignored and he may also try to intrude into your personal space through fair and unfair means. Therefore, practicing this ploy once in a while is enough to stir doubt into your partner’s mind.

 

7. Casually Flirts with His Male Friends

As guys try to be the alpha male and the center of attention among the pack, flirting with their male friends will instill a feeling of insecurity. Their subconscious mind will view their male buddies as a threat and instill a fear of losing out on the affection of their lady love. However, overdoing this trick can lead to a lot of misunderstandings. Hence, one has to be cautious while implementing this trick.

8. Don’t Give in to His Requests Easily

During the days of the ‘initial chase’, the man left no stone unturned to grab your attention while you continued to pretend to ignore his efforts.  While you don’t need to reject all his efforts, you can appear unimpressed with insincere efforts or lackluster attempts at wooing you. This will send a clear message that he needs to make improved attempts to reinvigorate the dying intimacy between the two of you.

 

9. Withdraw When He Tries to Initiate Physical Intimacy

An easy-peasy way of triggering jealousy within his mind is pretending to be fast asleep or disinterested in holding hands, or cuddling. It may seem difficult to pull away when he embraces you with those lovely hugs from behind, but a little bit of resistance from your side towards this short-term pleasure can keep the sparkle alive in your relationship for a long while.

However, the staged act of pulling away from moments of physical intimacy may hurt his pride and instill a feeling of rejection. Hence make sure not to overdo it.

10. Do Not Be a “Helicopter” Partner

Thoughts of your bae’s wellness and his regular activities may bother you, you may want to instantly run to him and enquire whether he has had his lunch or taken his medicines on time. However, take a step back and realize that you are not his mom and he may be getting too much of your attention. Hold on, and take a break from the constant love that you have been showering on your partner. The sudden disappearance from his life will compel him to introspect his approach towards this relationship and motivate him to undertake efforts to revive the fading love.

 

11. Walk Away When He Tries to Initiate Conversations

Another way with negligible efforts to make him jealous is to pretend to be busy elsewhere or walk away pretending to be on a call while he is enlisting his experiences of the day. As men tend to get easily insecure, this lack of interest will provoke them to take on actions of your interest like buying flowers, tidying the house, and even cleaning the dishes to win back your affection.

 

12. Use Social Media as Your Arsenal to Create an Illusion

Although many people have questions regarding the authenticity of people’s lives on Social media, virtual media tools can be a potent tool to evoke a FOMO within your boyfriend’s heart. So curate that share-worthy pout with the most ravishing reds, wear that pricey backless dress, and create the illusion of having a great time by sharing it on your social media platforms. Your boyfriend will then imagine all the guys ogling at you and feel jealous and protective.

13. Recollect Experiences from Previous Relationships And Praise Your Crushes

Reminiscing the bitter-sweet experiences of your previous relationships without giving away too much is a lightning-fast way of making your boyfriend jealous. These tactfully concealed details will drive him crazy and he will try to get friendlier and closer to you.

 

14. Educate Him About the Male Attention You Are Receiving

Show him a flirt text or the captivating comment your work colleague made about your appearance on your latest Instagram post. At first, your bae may find it very causal, but frequently repeating the same will trigger him to suspect something fishy, and his overthinking may lead him to think that he has been losing out on his relationship and hence, make more efforts to reconnect.

 

15. Plan Outings with His Male Friends

One thing ladies need to be sure of while executing this step is to make sure that they dress to impress. Make sure you post Instagram stories while you are on an outing with their friends so that it generates a feeling of insecurity within their minds. Also, do brag about the night’s experience for days after the plan is executed. The triggered cocktail of jealousy and possessiveness will do the rest.

 

16. Skip a Few Date Nights And State Reasons to Awaken Suspicion

Avoiding a few date nights because it is that time of the month may initially frustrate your man, but if you tell him you held up at work with a male colleague, the plot is sure to thicken. But one needs to be cautious while executing this step as your partner’s overthinking may lead to unforeseen misunderstandings and miscommunications. But, make sure you keep the communication crisp and act very casual as giving away too much information may lead to your boyfriend questioning your loyalty towards the relationship.

 

17. Develop Newer Interests And Invest in Self-development

Investing in yourself to cultivate a diverse personality works miraculously both ways. Firstly, it helps you to have a broader perspective about a new skill and it also enlightens your man that your world does not only revolve around him. Hence, when your man sees that he is not the center of attention as he used to be previously, he will go tooth and nail to get back the same affection and attention.

18. Compliment Other Men

Just as women feel intimidated by the presence of other women, men also hate it when their ladies compliment another man’s gentlemanliness in front of them. Apart from raising the question “Am I not good enough?” somewhere subconsciously in their mind, your man also starts viewing other men as a threat and hence, starts to up his own game.

 

19. Drop Hints About WorkSpace Colleagues And Neighboring Male Fellas

For those wondering about how to make a guy jealous over text, the easiest way is to casually and organically mention the romantic approaches made by the boys in your workplace, neighborhood, and social media following. Also, telling him about the repetitive attempts made by these clingy guys to win your attention will instill doubts in his mind and it will make him wait impatiently for the next long weekend to visit you.

 

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